6. Social skills
This is the “EQ” or Emotional Quotient. Do you have a way with people? Are you really listening to what the other person is saying, or are you simply waiting for your own chance to talk? Knowing how to connect and make women feel appreciated is a huge turn-on.

The mid-tier: Building the connection
7. Ambition and purpose
It’s hard to ignore a man who really gives a damn. It needn’t be anything lucrative or prestigious; you may be passionate about your art or trade, your cause, or your own goals. The notion of having a “North Star” implies that you’re self-disciplined enough to create your own destiny rather than drifting through life aimlessly, something women love, it seems.